Colt Spence: I would explain to those people that although BDSM isn’t for everyone, there’s nothing
wrong with learning new ways to connect with one another. BDSM requires a massive amount
of trust in your partner and it’s a great way to connect on a deeper level. If you’re at all curious, I
highly recommend doing some research on your own, particularly from experienced and reputable
sources like KinkMen.com.
Do you have a favorite KinkMen scene?
Colt Spence: There are so many scenes that I’ve filmed with KinkMen that have a special place in
my heart for different reasons. If
I had to choose one, I would pick
“Payback” starring myself and
Heath Halo, directed by Christian
Wilde. The scene was filmed out
in beautiful North Carolina at a
recently-demoed nursing home.
I worked in Construction before
getting into adult film so it all felt
very familiar and understanding the
characters was easy for me. Not to
mention I got to work with Heath
who is such a beautiful man and
someone I’d been wanting to work
with for a long time. Everything just
fell into place so perfectly and the
final product is one of my highest
rated scenes yet.
Is there a particular scene or
partner that stands out as
especially intense?
Colt Spence: My scene with Derek
Kage. I can’t help but to smile every
time I watch or even just think about
it.
How do you maintain trust and
boundaries during a shoot?
Colt Spence: It is much easier to
create and maintain trust than it is
to find and rebuild it. It’s important
to connect with your partner ahead
of time and feel out their energy and
comfort level. As a Dom performer, I
know my scene partners are putting
a lot of trust in me to respect their
limits. I always make sure right from the start that they know I take this very seriously and that
I’m genuinely looking out for their wants and needs while we perform. Once that relationship is
established you can really have fun with each other and start to push some buttons.
What’s your preparation process like before filming?
Colt Spence: I exercise regularly, eat fairly clean and always get plenty of sleep leading up to the day.
The most challenging part is making sure my mind is prepared. I don’t think people outside of the
industry understand how much of a mental balancing act performing on camera can be. I’ve seen
so many performers get in their own way over the years by overthinking their every action. The trick
is to keep yourself calm, stay focused on the goal and just have fun with it.
Ultimately, we are all here to make the fans happy so they can experience the same pleasure we do.